Why is it so bloody hard at times?
Why do the lessons learned before offer no solutions to the same problems?
Why do you sit there with a laundry list of things to do and yet - you’re stuck - immobile - watching every second tick away and add to the ever increasing mountain of guilt and self loathing and fear.
And pop-psych 101 platitudes don’t help - I’ve done the reading too and none of it applies. I recognize the cycle and if I could only work out how to manage the fall out - how to alleviate the shame of letting people down - I reckon it could be manageable - but I don’t know how to do that yet - and so here we go again on another emotional roller coaster.
I was so deep in the hole that I wasn’t going to publish today - it was just going to be another thing that I could blame myself for - I was looking at the 30 or so tracks that I needed to listen to for the list and just thinking there’s no way I’m ever going to get through this - and just to drive the knife in - I opened this track submission.
And now I’m sitting here grinning - well - somewhere between grinning and crying really - ‘cos you know what the thing is - it’s that - when I’m down - I forget. I forget why I create this list - I forget what its purpose is and why I love - absolutely love - curating it.
It’s because music like this makes me feel fucking better.
There’s just something to the knowledge that someone else feels it the way you do - that you’re not alone with your self defeating behavior - that even if right now you’re in the thick of it - that there’s something - maybe not hopeful but - reassuring perhaps - that another human being out there gets it.
I could go on and on about the track - about Callum’s voice and vocal delivery - about the accessible production and even more resonant lyric - on and on and on indeed… but best perhaps for you to listen for yourself:
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About the Curator - Andrew McCluskey
The first visual memory I have is that of the white upright piano in Singapore, Hell and the Dark Forces lived at the bottom, Heaven and the Angels at the top, they would play battles through my fingers and I was hooked.
As a psychology graduate I studied how sound affects human performance.
As a musician I compose instrumental music that stimulates your brain but doesn't mess with your language centers, leaving you free to be creative and brilliant without distraction.
As a curator I research how music can improve your life and create flow - I can tell you what music to listen to when studying for a test and why listening to sad music can make you feel better.
As the founder of musicto I’m on a mission to inspire a global audience of music lovers and artists through the development of people powered playlists.
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Andrew McCluskey
The first visual memory I have is that of the white upright piano in Singapore, Hell and the Dark Forces lived at the bottom, Heaven and the Angels at the top, they would play battles through my fingers and I was hooked.
As a psychology graduate I studied how sound affects human performance.
As a musician I compose instrumental music that stimulates your brain but doesn't mess with your language centers, leaving you free to be creative and brilliant without distraction.
As a curator I research how music can improve your life and create flow - I can tell you what music to listen to when studying for a test and why listening to sad music can make you feel better.
As a creator / contributor at musicto I’m part of a global creator community that collaborates through music. You can learn more about our community here.